Get involved Fundraiser stories 25 Challenges for my 25th Year In October 2013, my world fell apart as I said goodbye to my beautiful baby brother, Tom. He was just 19 years old. As we said goodbye, he told the family that to live without him we needed to 'crack on' and that is something I have been striving to do from that very moment. From the moment Tom decided to start fundraising, I did my upmost to assist him in every way. I entered the London Marathon, I helped organise dinners and auctions so when he died and The Tom Bowdidge Youth Cancer Foundation was created, it only made sense for my fundraising efforts to up their game. The first event I was involved with was the ‘Tom’s Girls’ Calendar in 2015 and I have been a large part of the organisation of a number of balls and auctions. However, sporting events have always been my focus and I have striven to raise as much money as possible by doing as many different challenges as I possibly can. In 2016, I undertook the challenge of 2 and a half marathons in the space of 4 weeks for TBF which took a huge toll on my body but was such a huge achievement as I raised about £3,000 for the Foundation. However, in the summer of 2016, I came up with the ludicrous idea of completing 25 challenges to mark my 25th year to raise £25,000. It would have been 3 years since we lost Tom and I wanted to do something momentous to mark the occasion. I couldn’t think of a better way of showing Tom what an inspiration he was by putting myself miles out of my comfort zone with a series of physically demanding challenges keeping me on my toes (quite literally) for a full 365 days. Tom always put others first, even while he was in hospital he would be checking on other patients before himself and I wanted to show him how much I had admired that trait and tried to channel that attribute in my own efforts. Challenges I completed: 9/10/16 - Tiptree 10 miles 5/11/16 - Queen Elizabeth Olympic Park 10k 19/11/16 - Victoria Park 10k 4/12/16 - Colchester Santa Fun Run 5k 26/12/16 - Witham Boxing Day 5 miles 28/1/17 - Hyde Park 10k 5/2/17 - London Winter Run 10k 19/2/17 - Anglian Water Duathlon 12/3/17 - Colchester Half Marathon 9/4/17 - Brighton Marathon 23/4/17 - Maglia Rosso Three Counties Sportive 14/5/17 - Tour de Tendring 27/5/17 - Ride the Night London 3/6/17-4/6/17 - Three Peaks Challenge 11/6/17 - St Albans Half Marathon 25/6/17 - Suffolk Villages 100k Bike Ride 1/7/17 - Essex Castle Bike Ride 9/7/17 - Evans Cycles Essex Sportive 23/7/17 - Suffolk Coast 100 24-28/7/17 - Hadrian's Wall Walk 5/8/17 - Battersea Park 10k 3/9/17 - Essex 100 Bike Ride 17/9/17 - London to Brighton Bike Ride 24/9/17 - Great East Run 1/10/17 - Blenheim Palace Half Marathon Every challenge I completed brought its own difficulties and obstacles to overcome but through every single one, I knew I had Tom by my side cheering me on, beaming with pride with what I had achieved. My favourite challenges were most definitely London to Brighton Bike Ride, Three Peaks, Hadrian’s Wall and Ride the Night as they were so far from what I was used to doing and brought together groups of people who provided me with phenomenal love and support making everything worthwhile. As I cried my way over the finish line of the Blenheim Palace Half Marathon knowing my year was complete, I couldn’t quite believe I had done it. I raised over £15,000 throughout the year which I know has gone to some wonderful causes including the building of the new teenage rooms at Colchester General Hospital. Everything I did, and do, has Tom in mind and I can’t wait to get back on my bike and into my trainers to see which challenge takes my fancy next!