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Virtual Stocking

Fill a Virtual Stocking. Unwrap a Smile.

The magic of Christmas begins in childhood – stockings hung with care, the joy of sharing festive food, presents waiting under the tree. It is a season for children to feel loved, safe, and to make memories that last a lifetime.

But for many young people facing cancer, Christmas looks very different. Treatment, hospital stays, and financial hardship mean stockings remain empty, presents never arrive, and family celebrations are overshadowed by worry and uncertainty.

You can change that. By supporting our 2025 Christmas Appeal, you can help us fill a virtual stocking with comfort, warmth, and joy. Your gift could provide essentials such as cosy clothes, a nourishing meal, or a thoughtful present that shows a young person with cancer they are not forgotten.

Every childhood is precious. With your kindness, we can bring hope, smiles, and a touch of Christmas magic to those who need it most.

Become a Secret Santa today. Support our Christmas Appeal and help unwrap 
a smile this Christmas.

“I want to share my story because I want donors to know how they will change the lives for others like me. The Tom Bowdidge Youth Cancer Foundation helped me during my darkest times. I don’t know what I would have done without them.”

Kiera’s Story in her own words

Back in October 2023 my doctor referred me for a blood test as I was having nightmares. Little did I know that that simple test would lead to a cancer diagnosis. The doctor sent me to get a blood test to check that my hormone levels and general health was okay and rule out some things that could be causing my sudden onset of nightmares. I was terrified of needles and took the day slow and as stress free as possible. I was so proud of myself for doing it. I went home and got back to work on my Taylor Swift concert jacket as a reward. A few hours after having my test done, I got a call from the doctors “Keira you need to go to hospital now, take a bag and take a friend.” instantly I was worried and knew something wasn’t right and I was thinking the worst.

Me and my friend trekked up to the hospital from our university accommodation and waited until someone came to speak to me. “So, your results Keira your anaemic but that’s not what we are concerned about. You have a really high white blood cell count.” I knew that white blood cells were involved in keeping your body healthy and you have more when you’re sick and I assume that it was Covid or something similar as they were so concerned “The normal rate of white blood cells should sit between five and seven yours are at 300 it’s not an infection it’s something else.” I knew then that it was cancer, but they wouldn’t tell me, they told me to call my parents up and try and sleep and the doctors would talk to me the following day. The day after I was diagnosed with Chronic Myeloid Leukaemia. Out of nowhere was a cancer diagnosis. I was 20 years old in my final year of university. Surely the tests were wrong, they weren’t. It was confirmed through a bone marrow biopsy that I had Philadelphia Jean which caused the mass production of white blood cells and leads to leukaemia. I had no symptoms to my knowledge. I was at university and working three jobs so surely I would have known they should’ve been signs in hindsight I had two symptoms severe backache caused by so many white blood cells in my bone marrow that couldn’t escape and caused pressure and bruising to my arms and legs.

At the time they told me if I had to choose a cancer you would want to choose this one. Pop a chemo pill for the rest of your life and have an occasional blood test. It’s not something I would’ve wanted. I’m terrified of needles and struggled to swallow tablets, but I suppose they’re right this is a very manageable one and one that has barely affected my life.

I get exhausted very quickly and I’ve lost some of my strength from my arms and legs. Some of my hair has thinned and come out but it’s not noticeable to me. This is the best-case scenario my oral chemotherapy hasn’t had too many side-effects and the effects it has had is manageable. A year on and as strange as it sounds, I wouldn’t change my diagnosis for the world, I’ve met so many incredible people heard so many amazing stories and done things I never thought I would ever do through a range of charities. This diagnosis has opened up a whole new world for me. I finished my degree and graduated nine months after my diagnosis.

I am back home with a full-time job seeing friends and family constantly and feeling hopeful. As scary as cancer is and as horrible as the chemo and bone marrow biopsy was, I’d do it all again to have this experience. Someone who’s never had cancer it wouldn’t make sense but quite a few people have spoken to have said the same thing.

Cancer is a scary and isolating thing but through charities I’ve met so many incredible people and expanded my world for that I am so incredibly grateful.
Cancer is a scary word and a scary situation but it’s important to realise that not all cancers mean death. I am proof that cancer doesn’t mean I would die and that we can live happily

Create your virtual stocking.

Choose from below meaningful gifts that could help unwrap a smile this Christmas for a young person facing cancer.

Most popular
Virtual Stocking - £5
£5 Could provide a young person with entertainment, art materials and books.
Virtual Stocking - £8
£8 Could provide warm essentials like bedding, blankets, cosy socks and other items.
Virtual Stocking - £10
£10 Could provide travel costs to and from hospital for teatment or a top up for a mobile so a young person can keep in touch.
Virtual Stocking - £12
£12 Could provide food and drinks vouchers when a young person is having a hospital stay or to help with a families food bill.
Virtual Stocking - £23
£23 Could help provide some warm winter clothing for a young person because they have lost or put on weight due to treatment.
Virtual Stocking - £75
£75 Could help provide a laptop, tablet or phone for a young person so they can carry on with their studies and keep in touch with friends and family.
Virtual Stocking - £100
£100 Could provide a special day out for a young person and their family so they can create lasting memories.
Virtual Stocking - £150
£150 Could provide a stocking full of gifts to a young person and their family including clothing, travel costs, food, wig, bedding or entertainment.
You Choose Help a young person with cancer this Christmas. Choose your own amount.

FAQ’s

Can I create my own Stocking?
You can create your own virtual stocking by choosing items from the list provided and adding them to your stocking using the add button. Alternatively, you can choose ‘other amount’ if you’d prefer and we’ll make sure your gift goes to where the need is greatest.

Can I send a real stocking?
All stockings are virtual and therefore we aren’t accepting real ones.

Can I change what I put in my stocking?
No unfortunately once you have completed your donation you can’t go back and amend it.

Will my stocking go directly to supporting a young person facing cancer?
When you choose an item to fill your virtual Christmas Stocking you’re supporting the vital work of The Tom Bowdidge Youth Cancer Foundation. These are real examples of items and help we provide. However, they are used here to represent the way your gift could be spent, and donations will be distributed across the charity and used where it is most needed to support young people facing cancer.

When will The Tom Bowdidge Youth Cancer Foundation contact me?
We will send you a thank you via email and payment confirmation. You can opt in for further communications about how your donation is helping provide life-saving support to young people facing cancer and their families.

I am having issues with payment.
If you are experiencing problems with your online payment then please contact [email protected] or give us a call.  We cannot take payment over the phone.

How does filling a virtual stocking help young people facing cancer?
The money raised through our virtual Christmas Stocking Appeal goes towards The Tom Bowdidge Youth Cancer Foundation’s work.  We give direct support to individuals and their families during some of their darkest times. Your donation will help fund and support our year-round work with young people experiencing a cancer diagnosis.

I need further support.
If you have any further questions not answered in the above, then please email [email protected]

How your company can get involved. For every virtual stocking worth £150 or more, we’ll feature your logo on a stocking which will be displayed here on our mantlepiece along with a shout out on our social media channels. To get involved choose from the Christmas stocking gifts above. Thank you for helping us Unwrap a Smile this festive season.

Thank you to the following companies who have kindly donated £150 or more to fill a virtual stocking.

  • TechWyse
  • Marfleet & Bradshaw
  • The Admin Solutions Hub – Calm, Clear and Collaborative
  • Fiducia Wealth Management & Wealth Preservation
  • THM Total Heating Management
  • Beresfords Group
  • Rotary Club of Colchester
  • Rund Surveying and Construction Consultancy

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